Tuesday, October 29, 2013

TEXAS LAW ON BULLYING - A journery through House Bill 1942 SECTION 1 - THE INTRODUCTION.


This is the begging of House Bill 1942 passed into law June 17, 2011.  Many parents and students do not know about this law but as there are more and more incidents of bullying being brought forward, there are now more and more repercussions for this vial act.  I would like to take you through the law little by little.  You will notice that i have interjected my explanation and comments through out the law ((like this))  for all children that may be following this blog and want to better understand what their rights are in our fair state.   I hope you will join me here each week and share this page with as many as you can because in someway, we are all affected by this.

A. House Bill 1942

House Bill (H.B.) 1942 became effective on June 17, 2011, after the Governor signed the bill during the 82nd regular session of the Texas legislature .51 The Texas legislature enacted H.B. 1942 and codified the bill into various sections of the Texas Education Code (TEC).52  State Representative Diane Patrick wrote H.B. 1942 to address changing issues relating to bullying ) “[f]or the first time, includes the definition of bullying in” the TEC;
(2) “[u]pdates the definition of bullying to include that through electronic means”;  ((this means through any electronic means such as texting, emails, facbook, instagram, twitter and so on ))
(3) “provides for the transfer of the student who engages in bullying”—previously the school district could only transfer the victim of bullying;  (( now the bully can be transferred an not just the victim )) 
(4) “[a]llows [schools] to include training on preventing, identifying, responding to, and reporting incidents of bullying”; and  (( to which many schools are enacting an anonymous programs for reporting such bullying ))
(5) “[m]andates that each board of trustees of each school district adopt a policy, including any necessary procedures, to address the prevention, investigation and reporting of incidents of bullying.”54In 2011, the Texas legislature passed H.B. 1942 along with other bills that addressed anti-bullying laws.55

As it is not my intention to over whelm you guys with a ton of legal lingo, I have chosen to introduce Texas law a little at a time.  These are changes that all parents and guardians should be aware of.  As a long time owner of a marital arts school, I made it my business to keep up with and know the law in my state regarding  the law as it relates to self defense.   All to often, I recall never hearing this topic addressed in my own training but I always wondered why no one told us the legal repercussions of punching an attacker in the throat.  (and there are repercussions people).

I look forward to going through House Bill 1942 a little at a time with you all because knowledge is always the start of empowerment.

Be the Change you Want to be.
Peace.
Coach J

Want to read ahead click here to see the entire House Bill



Tuesday, October 1, 2013

We need to know the law

I found this site a few years back and thought you guys might like to know what some of the laws were that pertain to bullying in our fine state.  There is a ton of good stuff on this site and there is a ton of info on bullying laws in every state.   CLICK HERE for link


Monday, September 16, 2013

THE ADULT BULLY

I have read several articles that "classify" adult bullies but I would like to write purely from my own perspective so here goes.

THE "BOSSY" BULLY - this person makes sure to take over when every possible and likes to put themselves in a position to be able to tell others what to do even when they are fully aware that others know what to do.  For example "Bill, don't forget that the boss wanted us to finish that project by Tuesday".  These bullies also have little to no empathy for anyone they target.


THE "BE-LITTLER" BULLY - This bully finds anyway they can to a person down at any given time.  For example.    "Yeah, I tried that and it really doesn't' work as good as everyone says it does" .

THE "COWARD/GOSSIP" BULLY - These are the slimiest of all.  These are people who only talk behind a persons back.  They slink around like dark shadows wreaking havoc by appearing to talk innocently about a person or their family.
THE "WORD GAME" BULLY - This person likes to show a person up by either playing on words or playing the "semantics" game.  For example.   "Bill, you don't really mean literally because literally would not actually demonstrate the meaning in this situation"  This bully likes to show you up by catching yo in your words

THE "IGNORer" BULLY - These are the passive aggressive types that will conveniently ignore a person when it would be appropriate to acknowledge them.  They can do this by skipping over a person while handing out flyers or information in a meeting or group environment.

THE "CONTRADICTING" BULLY - These bullies will contradict everything a person has to say just for the sake of an argument or making another person feel bad or uncomfortable.

THE "SNOBBY" BULLY - These bullies have created a sense of entitlement about their social status, economic status or cultural status.  The can have many of the characteristics of the above listed bullies.


THE "TATTLING" BULLY  - These bullies dig and look for things a person may be doing wrong in order to report or tattle about their activities.  Most of the times, these reports are slanted and even untrue.  The tattler makes themselves seem superior by pointing out others faults.

"PEER PRESSURE" BULLY"  This is a bully that can only bully when another person or group are actively bullying someone either behind their back of face to face as a group.

STRESSED BULLY - This person bullies as a release, taking out their confusion and frustrations on those around them.   They can be confused with the BOSSY BULLY because they usually are in positions of power and have no issue unleashing their damage on those subordinates who either cannot respond or are fearful to respond.

THE "KIND" BULLY  - This bully appears around others to be sweet and kind but quickly turns into the "COWARD/GOSSIP" bully when their target is out of range.  They talk sweetly to the surrounding group in a demeaning way that attempts to sound as if she feels sorry for the target.

THE "INTIMIDATION" BULLY - This is a person who just uses anger and tone of voice to intimidate those around them.  This is usually a well spoken bully who talks fast and confident giving the illusion of intelligence and know how.   They can convince the target and/or a group that they are in control and should be calling the shots.
THE "JOKER" BULLY - This bully makes fun of people in a joking way, humorously ruining a persons reputation.  This can be grouped with the "BELITTLING BULLY" bully by trying to down play the importance of the targets decisions, ideas or requests.  For example:  "I'm not really sure that will work" or "That's not really a good idea because...........".

These are the bullies that I see now , in my world.  They are really just the same bullies I saw as a child only now they are more crafty, more cowardly and more resourceful as some of them now hold positions of power they did not as children.  I'm still hoping and praying that someday, in some way, they will truly see what they are and what they are doing to humanity, their children and themselves.  Together we can make a difference.   Be the change you want to see in our world.


Coach Jay
Until next time.

Sunday, September 8, 2013

HOW BULLIES ARE CREATED

Well, it's been way too long since my last post but school is in week number 2 and it KILLS me to see all the bullying stories that have already hit the news.  This one, in particular, in Connecticut.  This child was so close to getting out of the "hell" that high school can be for someone who is different. This caused me to want to see what studies have been done regarding "how" a bully is made.

I have 1st hand experience with this as I was on both the receiving and giving end of bullying.  My personal story is just that I was tired of being picked on for being short, wearing glasses, being in the band & a goodie 2 shoes "churchy" kid.  These, of course were the names that were given to me by my bullies.  My Martial Arts training fortunately put an end to all of that, not to mention that fact that I did not go looking for trouble too much.

I wanted to look at something that I some don't think about.  Do PARENTS create bullies.  I feel like Dr. Joel Haber hits best on all the topics that I have seen as both a victim, a bully and a martial arts coach who dealt with the children (and adults) who were both victims and bullies.   I hope you will take a little time to read through this article and meditate about the messages, both direct and indirect that we all as parents are sending to our children.  

As always, "Be the change you want to be"
Coach McKey 



Saturday, March 31, 2012

BULLY - The Movie

REMINDER  - YELLOW and in this issue, some RED are my opinion and extra research to fill in the gaps



S.B. ( a.k.a. Senate Bill) 407 became effective on June 17, 2011, after the Governor signed the bill during the 82nd regular session of the Texas legislature. State Senator Kirk Watson wrote S.B. 407 to address the “offense of electronic transmission of certain visual material depicting a minor and to certain educational programs concerning the prevention and awareness of that offense.” As more students are getting cell phones, this new practice of sending “sexually explicit images of themselves to one another via text message,” (e.g., “sexting”) has become an increasing issue among teenagers that often leads to bullying or harassment.  (FYI this is such an embarrassing and sensitive issue that children rarely bring this up in conversation to parents who have not full demonstrated that they are EXPERT LISTENERS.  In other words, lecturing parents will rarely EVER know  about this type of abuse )

Before the Texas legislature enacted S.B. 407, if the school district caught students sexting, the state could convict them of possession and distribution of child pornography, which is a felony—meaning the student could go to jail and have a lifetime registration as a sex offender. S.B. 407 remedied this problem by “discourage[ing] children from sexting but not ruin[ing] their young lives” if the court imposed the maximum penalty.(My research regarding penalties for Juveniles and Adults are as follows:

GENERAL COUNTRY WIDE  Juvenile Penalties
When a juvenile—a person under the age of 18—commits a criminal offense, that offense is dealt with through the juvenile justice system, not the adult criminal justice system. Juvenile courts have a wider discretion in the kinds of penalties they impose, even when a juvenile is charged with a serious offense.

* WARNING. Juvenile judges can choose to punish a teen who commits a sexting offense with a verbal warning without requiring any  other penalty.
*FINE - At least one state, Florida, imposes a fine of $60 on first-time juvenile sexting offenders.  Subsequent offenders may face more significant penalties.
*COMMUNITY SERVICE OR COUNSELING - A judge may order a teen who commits a sexting offense to perform community service.  The court may also order a teen to attend individual or family therapy.
*PROBATION -  Probation is also possible for juveniles sexting offenders.  A teen on probation must typically report to a probation office, stay in school, an comply with any other orders the court decides.
*DETENTION - Teen sexting might result in a court ordering the juvenile into a detention center, home confinement, group home, or other placement location.

GENERAL COUNTRY WIDE Adult Penalties
If a teen is 18 or older, that teen can be charged as an adult and face more significant penalties, especially if convicted of child pornography or a similar charge.

*INCARCERATION - An adult convicted of child pornography faces a potential prison sentence of 5 years or more.  All felony convictions impose a sentence of at least a year in prison, though a person convicted may not have to serve any prison time at all.
*FINES - Can be significant especially if the adult teen is convicted of child pornography charge.  Fines can easily exceed $5,000.
*PROBATION - An adult convicted of sexting can also face probation of at least 12 months, but typically longer.
*SEX OFFENDER REGISTRY - Adult teens convicted of a sexting crime are considered sex offenders and must register themselves with a state sex offender registry.  Sex offender registries are typically maintained by the police.  They keep track of where registered offenders live, and offenders must notify police oficer their new location if they move.  the registration requirements differ by state, but usually last at least 10 years


Teen Sexting in Texas
With the rise of cell phone use, especially among teenagers, the practice of “sexting”—sending nude or sexually suggestive photos by text message—has also become common.
Some states have enacted laws against sexting that occurs between teenagers, with penalties that are less severe than those that would apply to an adult who sends such photos to an under-age person. Other states punish sexting under pre-existing laws against child enticement and pornography.

Teen Sexting in Texas
Texas punishes teen sexting under its law against electronically transmitting sexual depictions of children. Under this law, it is illegal for one minor to electronically send an image of someone younger than 18 years old to another minor; this includes images of the sender, recipient, or another underage person.
However, minors have a defense to prosecution when the images are solely of the sender or recipient, were sent within a dating relationship, and both parties are not more than two years apart in age (including if one party is 18 or older).
Images sent to harass or bully the recipient may incur additional penalties for the sender.T (x. Stat. & Code Ann. § 43.261.)
Adults who sext with minors may be prosecuted for distributing sexual images to a minor, possessing or distributing child pornography, or promoting sexual performance by a minor. These crimes are usually punished as felonies, described below. (Tx. Stat. & Code Ann. § 43.24, -25, & -26.)

SEXTING AND FEDERAL LAW
Depending on the circumstances, sexting may also be a crime under federal law.
The Prosecutorial Remedies and Other Tools to end the Exploitation of Children Today (PROTECT) Act of 2003 makes it illegal to produce, distribute, receive, or possess with intent to distribute any obscene visual depiction of a minor engaged in sexually explicit conduct. Knowing possession of such material—without intent to distribute—is also a crime under the PROTECT Act. (18 U.S.C. § 1466A(a)(1).)
Federal law also criminalizes causing a minor to take part in sexually explicit conduct in order to visually depict that conduct. Parents who allow this behavior can also be prosecuted. (18 U.S.C. § 2251.)
It’s also a federal crime to use a computer to ship, transport, receive, distribute, or reproduce for distribution a depiction of a minor actually engaging in sexually explicit conduct, or any material that otherwise constitutes child pornography. It’s another federal crime to promote or solicit sexually explicit material involving a minor. (18 U.S.C. §§ 2252, 2252A.)

Penalties for Sexting in Texas
It is a Class C misdemeanor to minors to send or receive sexts from other minors. Penalties may include a fine of up to $500. Penalties may increase for second and subsequent convictions or if the crime was part of cyber-bullying or other harassment.
However, a minor who receives sexts as part of cyber-bullying or other forms of harassment will be unlikely to be charged with (or convicted of) a crime.
An adult who sexts with a minor may be charged under one of several state laws mentioned above, depending on whether the adult sent, received, or solicited the sexts; and penalties increase if the adult distributed those images to others as child pornography. Penalties may include a fine of up to $10,000, up to 20 years in prison, or b
oth.
Sex Offender Registration
An adult punished for an offense involving sexting with a minor may be required, in addition to the fines and prison term described above, to register as a sex offender. And although it is less probable that a juvenile will have to register as a sex offender, it is a possibility that you should discuss with your attorney (described below).

Speak to an Attorney
Any charges that stem from teen sexting can result in some very serious consequences for the teen, the people who shared photos with the teen, and potentially for the teen's parents or guardians (who may be charged under Texas’ child enticement or endangerment laws for allowing the teen’s involvement in illegal sexual activities).
If you’ve been questioned by the police or charged with a sexting crime, you need to speak to an experienced local criminal defense lawyer immediately. Only an experienced local attorney will be able to provide you with legal advice, information about the courts and judges in your area, and the potential consequences of the charges against you, including whether juvenile defendants may be required to register as sex offenders. But federal prosecution of juveniles for sexting may be unlikely.  the Federal Jvenile Delinquency Act (FJDA) generally provides that, where possible, juveniles should be prosecuted in state - not federal courst.  (18 U.S.C 532.0)

While S.B. 407 mostly made changes to the Texas Penal Code, the Texas Code of Criminal Procedure, and the Texas Family Code, the bill did make changes to the TEC. “[S.B.] 407 requires the Texas School Safety Center . . . to create a sexting educational program” that would “be available to all school districts” and authorizes the school district to offer programs to its students. This bill amended the TEC by adding these school programs to address all the consequences of sexting and “the connection between bullying, cyberbullying, harassment, and a minor sharing visual material depicting a minor engaged in sexual  conduct.”80 S.B. 407 also requires school districts to make information about these programs
available to both students in appropriate grade levels and their parents.

III. DISCUSSION OF LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENDER
BULLYING IN SCHOOLS AND ITS CONNECTION WITH YOUTH SUICIDE

Who can forget the devastating story of Asher Brown, a thirteen-year-old boy who committed suicide because other students bullied him and accused him of being gay at his school in the Cypress-Fairbanks Independent School District in Houston. ( Despite your religious beliefs, any bullying based on sexual orientation is unacceptable) Asher’s parents said they complained to the school many times, but the school disregarded their concerns about their son. As “compared to their heterosexual peers,” young LGBT people “are at increased risk for bullying, teasing, harassment, physical assault, and suicide related
behaviors A ten year study of 7,000 LGBT students showed that due to their sexual orientation “eight of ten students had been verbally harassed at school; [f]our of ten had been physically harassed at school; [s]ix of ten felt unsafe at school; and one of five had been the victim of a physical assault at school.”

ASHER'S LAW HOUSE BILL 2343
As a result of Asher Brown’s suicide, State Representative Garnet Coleman wrote H.B. 2343—known as Asher’s Law—to address “youth suicide and . . . the prevention of associated discrimination, harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying.” The bill would amend the [Texas] Health and Safety Code to require the
Texas Department of Health, in coordination with the Texas Education Agency, to develop a comprehensive suicide prevention program for implementation in junior, middle, and high schools. The bill would also
amend the [Texas] Education Code to prohibit discrimination, harassment, and retaliation against . . . a student enrolled in the school district on account of actual or perceived ethnicity, color, gender, gender identity or expression, sexual orientation, disability, religion, or national origin of the . . . student

HOUSE BILL 1386
Garnet Coleman filed this bill on March 7, 2011, but it has not made it through the process for enactment by the Texas legislature—the next step is to have a public hearing, then a vote in the house and the senate, and finally a signature by the Governor. S.B. House Bill 1386 Garnet Coleman also wrote H.B. 1386, which became effective on June 17, 2011.The bill is similar to H.B. 2343 in that it amended the Texas Health
and Safety Code to require the Texas Department of Health, working with the Texas Education Agency (TEA), to provide suicide prevention programs in schools. However, the bill did not amend the TEC to prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation or other minority groups. Texas, while still in the
majority, has not included sexual orientation as a protected class of citizens against discrimination in its laws.  national Non Profit Organizations  "The Trevor Project" & "It Gets Better Project" 

Next issue will deal with BALANCING THE CONSTITUTION ADN CIVIL RIGHTS WITH NEW ANTI-BULLYING LAWS as they relate to Free Speech, the Americans with Disabiltiy Act of 1990 and the Office of Civil Rights

Be the Change you want to see
Peace to All
Coach J

Sunday, February 19, 2012

A GREAT IDEA

This Play about bullies is going on through February 26th 2012 at the Dallas Children's Center at Rosewood off of Skillman. 

CLICK HERE for mor info about tickets, times and prices



This sounds like a cool night out with the kids.  This kind of action is just what this topic needs to raise awareness.

 "Be the Change You want to See"
Coach McKey

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

BULLYCIDE - The Tragedy Strikes again

Bullied: Sophomore Drew Ferraro, 15, jumped to his death from a building on Friday on the campus of Crescenta Valley High School

DREW FERRARO - Died at age 15 - Jumped from the school building during 4th period



I find myself reviving my blog - Although I have not been blogging regualrly as I was, my passion to spread the news about the horrors of bullying are stronger than ever.

Here's the story of Drew Ferraro

http://www.glendalenewspress.com/news/tn-gnp-0216-funeral-celebrates-drew-ferraros-life,0,632803.story


Remember that stopping bullying starts with everyone of us.  Watch yourself.  We all have a little bully that can take over when we allow our emotions to take over.

When we yell at our children
When we use explitives on the highway
When we cut someone off
When we are rude to a waiter
When we are judgemental
When we are short with our spouse
When we glare at someone 

and I could go on and on with much more graphic versions of bullying but this is where you can catch yourself and adjust your mindset.   It starts with each one of us taking a stand against what we can control the most.  OURSELVES.

Please post this everywhere you can to draw awareness to this problem killing our kids.


Thanks and remember

"Be the change you want to see"

Coach McKey